Wow. You know, some people really just don't know a single THING about life and how to be an ACTUAL adult in this world. It is just plain sad. So, hubby and I were helping out some friends for the past, oh I don't know, 6 PLUS months and they were living with us. We are talking about a married couple. These people didn't work for a majority of the time, however, the male had a job for a few months of the time that they lived here. Anyways, you would think that the least they could do is keep my house clean and be respectful, well.... NO! Obviously this was too much to ask. You would not believe me if I told you all of the details, but trust me, it gets pretty bad. Anyways, I guess some "friends" really are just out for themselves and don't care who's toes they step on in the process. You know, they wanted to be treated like "roomies", well... sorry, but roomies pay rent and half the bills. Roomies don't sit in PJs all day and only come down and socialize to eat and then go back to being cooped up in the room all day and smelling like trash. No no, they were nearly GUEST in MY Home. That is where thier fallacy lies. I just finally had it at the end. Everyone that would come over would complain about how dirty my house was and how I don't EVER live that this. And... thats exactly right. But, I am no maid and I am certainly NOT these people's parents so I refused to pick up after them, escpecially when it was my paycheck and my hubby's paycheck that was putting the roof over our heads and paid all the bills. Forget that non sense. THEy were the reason I didn't keep the house work up and I just could not take it anymore. Let alone, the landlord was getting upset and said it was time for them to go. Haha. It was time for the boot.
Anyways, just needed to vent. These pieces of trash are out of my life for GOOD and I could NOT be happier. If they were ever "friends", they would not be acting the way they are and disrespected my house the way that they did. Friends don't take you for granted. Also, if they appreciated what they had, they wouldn't have waited til the last minuted to finally GET jobs and take us seriously about getting out on their own. They would have wanted to help bc of the burden they were putting on us. Ya know? Honestly, what was I thinking? I am just too damn nice at times and I end up getting screwed, but not any more. NOPE! Back to to good life in my CLEAN home with my amazing hubby who doesn't treat me life crap like her's does and who actually is supportive and loving and is there for me. I could not be happier and I love my life so much. This is prolly the best decision I have ever made. *Smiles*. No more being taken advantage of.... no more! Tehe.
Also, I now have FMLA at work on a long term basis due to my IBS. I had a colonoscopy recently and it was normal but I have IBS. I am now on medications. I get FMLA three days a month as well. Gah! I am just glad that I taking my health seriously now. Ya know? Time to get better. It sucks really.
Well, I just wanted to do a quick update and let you all know what was going on bc I have been getting a lot of questions about all of this lately and what exactly happened in my house. Bottom line, if you ever want someone out of your home, talk to your landlord, he or she will HELP you. Haha. Love my landlord.... love my life... more updates later. Hopefully I rememeber to do this more often now. Haha. :)
Peace, Love, and Chicken Grease,
Heidi Hardin
